On the Mayor's Mind

Mayor Shari Winstead
City of Shoreline

I recently had the opportunity to speak to a group of second graders at Syre Elementary. I was more excited about speaking to this group than any of the other meetings on my calendar. My son is 27, and it had been a long time since I was around 7 year old kids. But memory served me correctly.  Kids this age are truly a joy. Honest, open and interested.

I arrived just as the kids were coming in from recess. Their (amazing) teacher quickly brought their attention to their guest (me), and within moments they were quietly seated on the floor in their places. They immediately understood that their attention to their guest was a sign of respect, and frankly, I have never felt so much respect in a meeting.

On my way to the school that afternoon, I was lost in memories of my own son being that age, and how impressionable kids are, especially at 7. I hoped my words and my example would show them that they could be Mayor one day, or a doctor or rocket scientist - the possibilities were endless. I loved the thought of showing these kids they could do anything they want.  I could remove barriers and change perceptions for these kids, just by being me, and doing what I love to do.

Their questions were relevant (how much money does the City have, what does a Mayor do?), cute (how old is your dog? What is your son’s name?), and unexpected (do you know Keith (the former Mayor)? Do you know he drives a white car?). The teachers did a great job of prompting questions (why should we shop in Shoreline? What can kids do to help the City?). It was truly a fulfilling experience.

I had not expected to walk away feeling like this was the most interested and respectful group I had spoken to. No personal agendas, nobody checking their watch. Everyone was truly in the moment, respectful and open to learning.

Next time you go to a community meeting, think about leaving your preconceived ideas and personal agenda at the door. Come with an open mind and heart, and be willing to listen and learn. Be respectful, even to those you disagree with. Remember to ask questions, not tell stories. It will be a more enjoyable experience for you, and probably everyone in the room. Whether you are the speaker or the audience, one thing is for sure - your behavior really does affect everyone in the room, whether they are 7 or 57.

Mayor Shari Winstead

City of Shoreline